Kitzur Shulchan Aruch, Siman 153 Part 2/2

AI summary (may contain mistakes)

Which harchakos does the Kitzur set between husband and wife while she is a nida? The Kitzur bars gazing at her usually covered places, smelling her personal perfume and listening to her singing. The Kitzur then turns to acts of endearment and their limits, the seven clean days and going to shul, and closes with how a vest is established.

Key points

• The Kitzur forbids gazing at a nida's usually covered places, but allows looking at revealed ones.
• The Kitzur forbids the husband to smell her personal perfume or to listen to her singing.
• The Kitzur bars her preparing his bed in his presence, even when he is not well.
• The Kitzur keeps all the harchakos in the seven clean days and until she immerses.
• In the Kitzur, a vest is established by three consecutive times, such as the same day of the month.

In this shiur

1. 0:00Gazing and perfume during nida
2. 2:34Listening to her singing
3. 2:55Designated clothing in earlier times
4. 4:55Chazal's heter for makeup
5. 5:44Pouring wine and serving food
6. 8:51When husband or wife is ill
7. 11:55A nida, shul and the cemetery
8. 14:21Establishing a vest

Topics

• Harchakos
• Vestos